We all have had one frenemy in our lives at one time or the other, especially with women. The mind boggling question remains though, why do you become friends with someone you don’t really like? Well, whatever the case, here are 12 sure signs that friend of yours is a actually a frenemy which you must be wary of. Friends make friends shine, they don’t put them down.
It’s all about her – She’s the ‘alpha’ chick; you and her other friends are always second to her. As far as she’s concerned your world evolves around her.
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The only pictures she puts up on social media are of you with your eyes closed or in an embarrassing pose. She can’t afford to have you look more beautiful than she.
You get to be open up about all that concerns you, but she doesn’t see the need to tell you hers. She’s great at keeping secrets – at least hers… and letting out yours.
She never tells you the truth especially if you were concerned about how you look. She would rather tell you not to worry, “you look great”. You know why? So you don’t look as fabulous as she. Beware!
Frenemies are extremely possessive, they find fault in every single person you seem to connect with. They want to be your only friend and typically get angry when you invite other friends out.
They’re never happy for your accomplishments. Sometimes they want what you have and hate if you get it first. It really bugs them not to be the best.
Do you find yourself hiding any new purchases or old favourite fashion items from her? Frenemy alert! Everything you have, she has got to have as well. She may even insist that it suits her better.
When you introduce your new boyfriend that you are madly in love and very happy with, she takes you to the corner to tell you how she would never date a ‘loser’ like him – in truth she is so jealous and wondering why he isn’t with her. She might even secretly sabotage your relationship.
Frenemies only compliment you by comparing you to her – “Oh, you are so like me…”. They also say things like “That’s not bad writing, especially for a person with your education,” and “Well look who’s on time for a meeting. Seriously, I’m glad you could make it.”
Frenemies feed on negative information and always dig for more, that’s why they encourage you to talk as much, and about all your dirty little secrets. They may use this information as a ready tool for blackmail in the future.
They believe you are angry with them for some reason, then take it very personal and get angry too. Don’t worry though, it is just a guilty conscious.
You don’t feel you can trust her with just anything. Do you feel you can tell her even the most horrible thoughts in your mind and she won’t judge you? If you have to think for more than five seconds about the answers to these questions then you have a frenemy.
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